Written by BLC Intern Julie Lee
As I get ready to leave the Boston Living Center, I wanted to reflect on some of the experiences I’ve had here and what I’ve learned. I can’t believe it’s already my last week here. I remember my first time walking through those large front doors – I was incredibly nervous because this was my first time doing an internship like this. I was new to Boston, and new to the BLC, and I had no idea what to expect. But I now realize that I had nothing to worry about. I felt truly welcomed that first day, and the members and staff have been so friendly to me every day that I’ve been here.
I’m glad that my internship had elements of direct interaction with members and also some work behind the scenes because it allowed me to do a variety of work. I really think that every conversation I had with a member, no matter how short, helped strengthen my ability to communicate with others and to just be a more pleasant person to be around. I enjoyed participating in the walking group, serving lunch on Tuesdays, and facilitating Game Day! I also really liked attending groups – Chat B4 Dinner and Bridges on Wednesdays – there was a real atmosphere of support every time we all gathered in the library, through the somber moments and through the joyous ones. I remember being ecstatic the first time I got to check in about my week, and I felt supported by everyone in the room.
I’ve learned a lot about HIV/AIDS – way more than I could have learned in any classroom at Dartmouth. I’ve learned about different types of government assistance programs that exist, like housing and food stamps. I’ve learned about HIV medications, healthcare organizations around Massachusetts, and healthcare policies. But beyond facts, I’ve learned some skills as well – through changing the bulletin boards every other week, I learned how to be a better researcher. I learned how to talk to people with different experiences than my own. I learned that even though we might have different priorities, or be busy, we all love a good game of dominoes.
I want to thank everyone who’s contributed to my experience here, even if it was just saying hello. Having grown up in a large city, I wasn’t used to saying hello to everyone I saw or even acknowledging their presence. Saying hello to everyone I saw in the BLC came naturally, though, because it’s clear that we’re here to support one another, and we care. Thank you for teaching me how important support systems are, and making a difference in my life. I hope that I was able to do the same, or at least brighten some of your days.
Thank you and best wishes,